Feel Good? or FEEL GOOD !

I have seen people do all sorts of drugs that really can mess people up, someone very wise told me that one can not stop a person just because you care for their safety. I also believe in this that one cannot stop someone from doing something that they like to do for whatever reason they may have for doing it. It is starting to become apparent to me that some people do some sort of drug as a form to try and fit in, feel good, forget, or just because they need it. I have learned that people even if they were to try and stop could suffer from stopping because the damage has already been caused. I have a someone close to me who had a friend who was doing really well in trying to recover from his addiction but as soon as he stopped it seemed that the drug had done the damage that was making it hard for the person to ever recover this person ended up passing away. I believe the saying that a mother and father should never have to suffer of having to bury their own son. If someone wants to quit a drug I constantly hear of inner strength and it's true they have to want to believe in themselves that they are able to conquer this addiction. Does this mean that everything that happens around us happen for a reason? Does that greater being have an actual plan for us that we are following as we speak or as I write this blog? Destiny seems to have an odd effect of having people that may or may not deserve it dissappear from our lives. If anything I believe that one should try and see the lesson that one can learn from these events that are somewhat control for example the drugs and they can pass the knowledge that they have gained from the horrific expierience, and hope that someone will hear their cries